I did not die in the meanwhile but actually spend quite some time thinking about this. I think first and foremost this: I very much apologize for what happened. It has been and does bug me. I am truly sorry and ask you to forgive me.
I see your point of view – it never was my perspective that any of it was your fault; hence I really did not intend to pretend it was. Sorry as well if it came across that way. I tried to point out why I reacted the way I did but did not mean to put any blame on you. It most certainly is on me.
Apparently, I am not such a poor judge of character as we thought. Buffalodick, I’m looking at you 😉